I give God the glory for preserving us from all evil & sickness; I thank him for making us to see this day in good health and sound mind. In Jesus name I have prayed, AMEN.
Today’s discussion will focus on our single women. I know you may be thinking why she is only talking on single women and not men too. It is simple; a woman is the one who is to be a good thing for marriage. A woman also decide whether or not to make her home a better place.
A woman keeps up relationship if she wants it. If a good woman love and marry a foolish man, she can make that man who she wants him to be. On the other hand, if a good man loves and marry a foolish woman, I am sorry sir, it is in her old age you will have her for yourself when she has nowhere to go. You see, that is why I decided to speak out to our single women on how to behave now to prepare them for a good and happy marriage.
It is not a bad thing to be a single girl now, do not allow anyone to make you feel less because they are married, it is an opportunity for you as a single girl to start preparing yourself now to be a good thing for your husband.
Whosoever findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour from the Lord. Some married women wish they were single today all because they did not prepare for it; they saw their friends getting marry that is why they too got married. I listened to a program some time ago and the pastor made me to understand that:” You prepare for marriage & not prepare in marriage”
Preparing for marriage is learning all of those qualities and characteristics that will make you a good wife to endure bad times when it comes, which of course you should expert.
To my single ladies out there, one thing that is rampant in this nation is breaking homes and loving to married men, which is very bad and you know it, if you want your own relationship you have to build it up yourself. You cannot be breaking others homes and expert God to sent you your own husband, it does not work that way. You will have to leave that married man because he will not marry you.
You are just wasting your time for nothing, the money and cars he is giving you will not help you. At the end of the day, you will need someone to love & care for you. This is one of the reasons why most women that wasted their youth days selecting the type of man they want end up being lonely or using their cash violence to marry young boys who will end up eating all their cash and frustrating them.
Don’t be choosy, just prepare yourself for your marriage and God will sent you that special man he wants for you, and not the one that you want for yourself. Your choice might not be the right person for you. With these ideas that you have read today, I pray that you will be wise to learn from other’s experience to do the right thing in the site of God.
Father in the name of Jesus, I thank you for these ideals I have read today, I pray oh lord! That you will make me wise to see my right partner, help me lord Jesus and make me a good thing for a man to marry.
In Jesus name I have prayed Amen.
Watch out for next week edition, on the characteristics you should have in preparing yourself for marriage.
HAVE A BLESSED DAY.
Min. Mrs. Massa M. Kanyon, House of Achievers Church
Old Road Junction, behind Executive carwash
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