“And unto the married I command and not I but the lord, let not the wife depart from her husband”.
Thank God for today’s lesson; may this lesson open the minds of all wives to do according to the word of God. In Jesus name, AMEN.
Let us first look at the definition of A WIFE & A WOMAN.
WIFE is a married woman, especially in relation to her spouse.
WOMAN is an adult female human. A woman can only become a wife when she joins herself together with her spouse into wedlock.
I came across many definitions of marriage, but the one I love most says, MARRY is to join end to end so that both will pass through a BLOCK.
This definition is simply telling us that, there will be difficult times in marriage. As a wife, you should be able to go through those difficult times (BLOCK) with your husband. As we all know a BLOCK is very solid; you must be very strong to break it that is, to pass through it.
Let me now discuss a WIFE and not a WOMAN, because they are two different persons. You may ask way; it is because what a WIFE can endure, a WOMAN cannot.
Let us go back to the beginning of this lesson and read what the scripture says in 1Corinthians 7:10; it says let not the WIFE departs from her husband.
It is clearly understood from the scripture, so it is about time that we the WIVES stand by our husbands no matter the condition, it is the time that you perform you role as a WIFE. Remember, the bad time is the time of your evaluation, which qualifies you as a WIFE or KNIFE.
I classify a woman, who gets into marriage for only good times and what she can get, but leaves her husband when things go bad as a KNIFE.
These kinds of women are not wives because they get into marriage because their friends are also married, some get married because their spouse can afford at that giving time to make them have all the luxury.
Marriage is necessary, but not urgent.
To be able to withstand the bad times in marriage you must first of all be a PRAYERFUL PERSON. Know within your BRAIN and your HEART that you truly LOVE your spouse, and that you will be able to STAND by him no matter the condition. Before you get into WEDLOCK, if you cannot see these things in you for your spouse, don’t let anyone fool you and don’t be move by the money because you will face a serious problem and end up running away from your own home.
You will have lot of difficulties in submitting yourself to your husband, if you don’t love him.
Ephesians 5: 23
“Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord”.
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By; Min. Mrs. Massa M. Kanyon, House of Achievers Church
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